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Originally Posted by accymel
Heheheehe do u think he could handle 3 grandkids at once  |
Aye, he could - but thats why I passed on my knowledge and wisdom to you two.... lol - so that I don't have to....lol
Always remember to explain to em that with every "right" they feel they have to do something, also comes with the word "responsibility" and that every "action" they do always has a "consequence" and to have respect for others and their property
My old dad had a very good theory about bringing up children, (
and he should know, as he brought up 8 of us single handed after my mum died when I was 1, and still went out to work as well ) - it was "give children what they
need, not neccessarily what they want" - think about that one carefully - it has great wisdom!!
Do they
need the latest ipods or fashion??, - well maybe - or maybe they
need love, attention, shared experiences, fresh air, a time to be kids and have fun, maybe they
need to see places, allow them to achieve things for themselves - and maybe sometimes they
need diciplining for breaking the rules