[Margaret Pilkington]

And Blazey, I am sorry to disagree with you, but my work allowed me to meet with people whose lives had been thoroughly destroyed by inappropriate sexual contact with adults. These people may get some psychotherapy, but that doesn't return their innocence and their self esteem, and the overwhelming feeling that they were somehow to blame for what happened.
Their lives are ruined....they have problems making meaningful adult relationships and trying to rebuild trust is a major issue for them.
These are my own observations....anecdotal they may be, but their effects cannot be denied.