[Margaret Pilkington]

Treacletart, no-one is trying to crucify you.......and i think that a few of us have put forward answers to the original question. Having said that there may not be just one answer......but your feeling of persecution doesn't help. If you feel that this is such a bad place then you have a choice - no-one forces anyone to visit this forum or to post threads.......and if that is seen as a derogatory comment...it certainly isn't meant to be. I'm just stating a fact.