[garinda]

Originally Posted by Margaret Pilkington

Garinda.....Church Yards and headstones are for the living....they are there so that they can go and feel some link with the person who has died.
If only these people realised that the closest link you have with a loved one once they have died, is in your heart.
While ever you remember them their spirit lives on...in you.

I know what you mean, but without going into details, we know someone who needs to go to the churchyard daily, at the expense of actually getting on with their, and their family's, life in the here and now. Which I think is sad.