[Margaret Pilkington]

Spot on Willow.....and Cashy, I think it is better to treat people how you would WANT to be treated.
Saying that, many years ago I had had a big row with hubby and thought I would teach him a lesson....I starched all of his underpants...I mean like 3 boxes of Robin starch.......they were like cardboard....couldn't be folded, had to be bent.....he got the message....but who do you think got the job of washing all the starch out of those grunnies....yeah, you guessed it - it was yours truly......so I guess it wasn't really a win - more like a score draw!
Now I am older I realise that there are very few people who are worth my spending time trying to get one up on them.....life will do it for me. All I have to do is wait.