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WillowTheWhisp · 17-07-2007, 17:59

A few months ago I heard a talk by someone about choosing not to be offended. He explained that no-one else can ever actually offend you if you choose not to be offended by them. I'm not very good at explaining it but it did make perfect sense to me. If you dwell on whatever it is they have done to you it doesn't actually affect them at all but it does affect you so why waste time doing that to yourself?

17-07-2007, 17:59	#19
WillowTheWhisp Resident Waffler Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Accrington, Hyndburn Posts: 18,142 Blog Entries: 14 Liked: 14 times Rep Power: 1062	Re: revenge...how do you do yours? A few months ago I heard a talk by someone about choosing not to be offended. He explained that no-one else can ever actually offend you if you choose not to be offended by them. I'm not very good at explaining it but it did make perfect sense to me. If you dwell on whatever it is they have done to you it doesn't actually affect them at all but it does affect you so why waste time doing that to yourself? __________________