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Old 01-08-2007, 22:27   #27
shakermaker
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Re: co-habiting couples

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Originally Posted by Lilly View Post
Why don't you get married? As has been said already in this thread,marriage is a commitment.Make that commitment to each other and you will receive certain rights.Don't and you won't.You can have a very simple wedding that needn't cost much at all.Some people don't want to get married but want all the rights that go with it.They want the ha'penny and the cake.
Marriage is a religious bond, not just a legal contract. People should enter into it because they believe in the concept of marriage, not because they want legal benefits - and it certainly isn't a higher sense of commitment than cohabitation.
Anne said it perfectly:

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Originally Posted by Anne
Unless people are religious and want to make a commitment in the eyes of God, then why get married for the sake of a bit of paper.
If people want to get married then fine but i don't think people should be pressured into doing so.
I'm sure the ridiculous amounts a wedding costs can be put to much better use.
A couple in a long term relationship should have all a married couple gets.
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