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Originally Posted by slinky
Yes I know what you mean about the parenting Spugg but, I think if you have good parenting skill's there is no need for slapping your kids any way!
My mum very rarely had to ever slap us, but I think we were quite well mannered kids. The LOOK she gave us was enough to know we had over stepped the mark 
And we were taught from a very young age that we ever bring the police to her door and we would have more than the police to worry about!!
As it goes, I don't need to slap my children and they are good mannered kids, and they too know if they ever brought the police to my door, they would be in deep lumber!! None of this " my kids have rights" bull, they get into trouble with the police, they pay the consequences dearly.
I know it's not easy being a parent, but if you start with the right attitude while they are young, then you don't have as much trouble when they get older. Much harder to try and change a teenager that has got away with blue murder all their life  |
Very true slinky
Also kids needs guidence on whats right or wrong & to apply the right track & not the wrong one to any given situation & yes that has to start learning that early on in life - even if said situation has not necessarily arrived yet - then kids need to be warned & taught before some situations arrived as consequence of actions done earlier that may of not been as bad but soon escalates.
My kids hate the word 'consequences' cos they hear it that much