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Originally Posted by Gayle
Has anyone ever been in the situation where a partner/husband has said that they don't like a friend of yours?
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yep even worse, wanted me Best Mate to be my Best Man when i got wed early 70s,my missus to be said NO dont want him at the wedding,never mind best man, she was frightened of him, as the only time she had ever seen him was fighting with the police n thrown in the back of the black maria, i tried to explain he was a great bloke,just one who took crap off nobody etc all to no avail,anyway after we were wed i obviously kept in touch cos we'd been mates since childhood, 3 years later when we were expecting our daughter, she said to me ask ****** to be her godfather please, i was gobsmacked, she had got to know him by then n thought the world of him, he accepted n she explained to him why he was not at the wedding, n he said he understood n he wouldn't have had himself there either.pmsl it turned out a great friendship that lasted till she passed away.
