[WillowTheWhisp]

So sorry to hear that Julie and Ian. I know what you're going through, been there myself and I can fully understand how you may not wish to talk about it at an AccyWeb meet when you are just there to socialise. You know that there are plenty of people here sending you virtual hugs anyway and can empathise with you. It's hard and I don't think you ever get over it even though you have other children. I always wonder about the ones we didn't have and often grieve for them as I would for the loss of any loved one. Sometimes people ask me why I waited so long to start a family. I didn't wait. It's just the way it was. Knowing that others have been through the same thing doesn't make it any easier but at least you know that we know what it's like and we feel for you at this time.

So, not mentioning it when I see either of you of course doesn't mean that I don't care - just respecting your wishes.