[Madhatter]

Most people don't, you know that as you've just admitted it but in your mind the fact that it's the wrong way round makes it ok. It's the people who don't that are to blame. Bit like the kids are at fault for getting themselves killed. A 6 yr old and 7 yr old SHOULD know the danger so it's their fault regardless of whether they did or not.
And anyway who says we or they should know anything.

Usually what is perceived as what should be or as what is the norm is what the general consensus thinks and I doubt very much that most people would agree with you. That is most people in the outside world, not on one forum or chat site. My experience has shown me that a whole site can have a twisted sense of reality, and I've been on lots, I've mixed with the lowest of the low, dregs of society, I've chatted in the dustbin of chat and I've chatted with decent people on decent sites each with their own opinions.