[Bonnyboy]

Originally Posted by cashman

its certainly an odd thing to me, but that thought never entered my head,cos does it really matter?what i mean is some like to talk to all and sundry about it, some will not talk/dont want it mentioned, theres no right or wrong with it,

I just thought it odd, but then we all deal with things in a different way. There is no right or wrong way to deal with grief as you say. Does it really matter ? I dont think so really, if the girl gets some solace from it all well and good.