I think you're doing just right. As well you not being a martyr to him, you've also done him and his future partner a big favour.
Who wants a fella whose mum has done everything for him? He'll only expect you to carry on in the same fashion. LOL
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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs, cackling and telling me
'You'll be next.' They stopped when I started doing the same to them at funerals.
