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banjoman · 20-01-2008, 18:11

Do what you think is best for yourself. What will other family members think if you dont go ? Is it better to have a few hours of tutting or a potentially longer time of regret for not being there ? By going will you will feel bad as you dont think you want to be there ?

Tough one, but what I would say is whatever you decide you will question your own decision right up until the time, so maybe input from other trusted friends/family will help. You may also find the reaction from the family may not be what you expect and they may know more than you think.

20-01-2008, 18:11	#6
banjoman Full Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: A galaxy far,far away Posts: 155 Liked: 3 times Rep Power: 43	Re: so my mum died this afternoon... Do what you think is best for yourself. What will other family members think if you dont go ? Is it better to have a few hours of tutting or a potentially longer time of regret for not being there ? By going will you will feel bad as you dont think you want to be there ? Tough one, but what I would say is whatever you decide you will question your own decision right up until the time, so maybe input from other trusted friends/family will help. You may also find the reaction from the family may not be what you expect and they may know more than you think.