Re: so my mum died this afternoon...
its a difficult one, YOU n your family must come first, i think, as for relatives i think its fair to say, you probably are not aware of who knew what? you being a child at the time. i know bloods thicker than water, but anyone who tuts to me is not worth yer time anyway. coping with a family death is not as easy as some may think, i had a similar thing with me dad until about 18months before his death (was wed with kids then) all i can say is i went to his funeral n can honestly say it did me no good. everyones differant.the important question is wether you go or not how yer gonna cope with that descision, try n answer that n it may give you the correct path. good luck.
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