[derekgas]

I kind of agree a bit with everyone here, so there can't be much here that helps in many ways, willow has a very valid point, you have one chance at this, but as opposed to closure for yourself or anything for your mother, I think maybe your sisters would appreciate you being there for them, it's a very tough call, and I thank god it is not a decision I will have to make (not for my mum anyway), unless my biological father (sperm donor is how I refer to him), makes a second intrusion into my life, his funeral I would not go to for anything or anybody, but mine would be a much easier decision than the one you have to make, when all is said, I think going to be beside your sisters, and to say good riddance (if that is how you feel) sounds like a better bet than not going at all and perhaps resenting it later. All the best gg, that is a toughie!