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Originally Posted by glasgow guy
a mother who tells her son that she wished he died at birth is not a mother who loves her son - in my eyes
and I cannot forgive her for what she done to me as a kid - how I dont have any emotional/mental scars from it is anyones guess... 
I am not being stubborn about it...simply realistic about it...and the only reason I would go if my sisters asked me to go.
I would go for them - not for me to say any goodbyes - my goodbyes were said 8 years ago when she abused me down the phone after telling her I was moving to england...
she has been making her bed for the last 30 years - now she can lie in it for eternity.. |
I don't know either you or your mother, and it's upto you what you do in the end. But I dont think you need to ask the forum whether you should go when you clearly know the answer already. Just follow your heart.