Lilly she is serving god so i would say not.
i hope nobody thinks i am being opinionated - i am just interested what others think.
We all look at the world through different eyes after all.
Garinda i know it is breaking the meaning right down - but that is why i put pure altruism, and i am no philosopher lol ( maybe after a few pints )
and i hope you are doing well, you have some very kind people around you and i am guessing you are a person who does many nice things for others it was obviously your time to get some back xx