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Originally Posted by WillowTheWhisp
So Keetah would you say that just because someone feels good after they have done something nice for someone else that turns it into a selfish act rather than a selfless one because they have personally gained a good feeling from it?
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Do you know what Willow i am one of those people that goes out of my way to do things for others, even if it means putting myself second third or ninety ninth, i feel like i just get kicked in the teeth for it a lot of the time. I work hard and people dont seem to see it until i have a day or two feeling under the weather then they notice i have slowed down and give me one of those looks - to say "can you put that rocket back up you bottom please" lol i am sure there are many nice people that feel like they should start to be less than nice and i dont know why we carry on doing it but we do but i dont think i am altruistic in the actual sense. i suppose i just like to make other people happy when i can - and that is what i get out of it i suppose.
but no i really dont think they are acts of selfishness at all xx