to answer mick, i personally would not go in one, i also agree with slinks wholeheartedly there is some very good uns, the reason i wouldn,t go in one,aint any reflection on care homes,its just the way i'm built, independant and more importantly too damn stubborn. cant answer for parents,mine are long gone, but if they were not, its not summat anyone can honestly say until it ever crops up, cos everyone circumstances now may well be differant further down the line. life CHANGES all the time.
