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Originally Posted by cashman
to answer mick, i personally would not go in one, i also agree with slinks wholeheartedly there is some very good uns, the reason i wouldn,t go in one,aint any reflection on care homes,its just the way i'm built, independant and more importantly too damn stubborn. cant answer for parents,mine are long gone, but if they were not, its not summat anyone can honestly say until it ever crops up, cos everyone circumstances now may well be differant further down the line. life CHANGES all the time.  |
This is one of the reasons i asked this my mum is 76 fine in body but starting with dementia
just forgetting little things like cleaning ,
she was very house proud but on visiting her we find things very dirty
for one we always go to the chippy rather than cook a meal there
she is very independent , lives on her own seeing two husbands off and being an ex nurse herself .
she lives in Preston my brother gets her shopping at weekends etc but cant look after her 24,7 the way she is going she will out live both of us .