[shillelagh]

I know what it was like when my mum died - everything was in her name so had to transfer everything to mine. I had so many arguments with the gas, electric, water etc that one day i slammed the phone down on them. One of them even said they couldnt switch it over unless they spoke to the person who's name was on the bill - i said if you want to write to her its Grave **** in St Johns Stonefold Cof E Church yard and she said you dont have to be like that - i said i told you she'd died so im asking you to put it in my name. Its hard enough when someone dies and you dont need all the hassle you get. The only one i didnt have any problems with was BT mind you sis sorted that one out.

Bernie an idea for you - if you get another letter from them addressed to Ian - i know it sounds horrible but it does work - write on it not known at this address and stick it back in the letterbox without opening it and no stamp on it.