Not at all
I put this thread on here so i could learn-and that i am doing
I used to be REALLY careful what i gave Jack to eat,careful of his environment,careful of everything but i think its when i got depression that i gave it all up and just did what was easiest and required the least effort.
I'm going to go back to being careful now im all happy again and not just 'coping' with life, but enjoying it......thanks for everyones replies