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Originally Posted by derekgas
Archiveuk, you still dont grasp it do you?, I used to work with a bloke who was a gentle giant, strong as an ox, do anything for anybody, some guys used to wind him up about his missus, who was a good looking nurse, he was having a bad time with his work too, nothing going right for him, he snapped and killed himself in his car with a hose through the window from the exhaust, whilst locked in the garage, I dont for a second think that he realised the possibility that his much loved 10 year old son would find him dead, suicides DO NOT REALISE what they inflict on other people, it is not a consideration for them, they do not intentionally inconvenience others.
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Well said.
My brothers wife committed suicide because she couldn't have a baby.
It was all she ever wanted, to raise a family......she could not live with the overwhelming grief she felt at being as she put it 'barren'.......she didn't jump off a bridge, she just took the pills when she knew my brother was going to be away from the house all day, wrote a note apologising for being a trouble, and then lay down and died. She was a lovely girl but her mind was tortured.
You are right Derekgas....they do not intentionally inconvenience others....they just want out of this life that is so painful to them.