My hubby is a funeral director so funerals are often in our thoughts in our house.
We both know what we want when the time comes.....hopefully this will not be for many years yet but, like you say Gayle, you could go suddenly tomorrow.
Some folk just can't bear to think about it but personally I think it's best to be prepared. I don't fancy having a load of songs that someone else has picked at my funeral.....what if they were rubbish?
__________________
Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs, cackling and telling me
'You'll be next.' They stopped when I started doing the same to them at funerals.