If he can't be fagged to come up with anything he wants I suggest you buy him some hankies, preferably the old biddy ones with his initial embroidered in the corner.
I threatened to do this to my hubby one year when he was umming and ahhing about what he wanted.
He soon came up with several suggestions.
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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs, cackling and telling me
'You'll be next.' They stopped when I started doing the same to them at funerals.
