[mumtotwo]

Thanks onlyme,
We do enforce discipline,my 3 yr old gets sat on the step and the 7yr old has a reward chart.
And yes if i warn them with a punishment it does get followed through.
But unfortunatly my 7 yr old is rather mouthy and no i wouldnt have spoken to my parents like she talks to us. But it is just her way of expressing her frustration.She is an intelligent 7 yr old and gets bored easily.
As i said in the first post i just needed to vent it off,i dont think i needed parenting classes thank you