[maxwell silver]

No,never do.Went to a wedding once of a very close friend of mine(shall we say).Never met her husband,she'd never met Mrs Silver.The first time we met again afterher marriage bith of us agreed that our partners were nothing at all like either of us had imagined.I find it's the same if you're going to some place you've never been before,you have this mental image of how you think the place will look but it's always different.Please ignore that bit i put in brackets,it makes it seem as though something untowards was going on & there was'nt.Maybe wishful thinking....maybe too much drink blah,blah,blah