Some kids never get to see their grandparents anyway, or at least remember them. I don't remember either of my grand dads, both died by the time I was one. You adapt to the situation you are in. My parents due to what ever their motives are, have not kept contact with me or their older grandchildren. My youngest have never seen them. They are alive and kicking somewhere! Their loss, as they really would have something to be proud of.
Once asked The twins (Nick & Scott...must stop saying the twins) if they thought they had missed out, especially considering their grandparents are still alive. They said no. They have many older people who they relate to, from various walks of life, have always had enough love and attention. so not a problem.
