[Darby]

I think your point was quite clear and very understandable, and I admire your approach and the care you show in trying to ensure your daughter does not read some of the extremely poor literature that is around these days.

But I think your statement "having seen posts in other threads calling me a control freak for asking in here... i really wish I had not sought help from this forum now" doesn't need to be in this thread at all. You were right in the first instance, and I still think you are right to seek other opinions.

Well done.