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Old 24-12-2008, 00:49   #39
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Re: Maternity Grant

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Originally Posted by Neil View Post
It takes 2 to make babies and should take 2 to make sure you don't make one.

It may sound sexist or whatever but if you are female and don't want a baby then ultimately it is up to you to make sure you don't. Blaming the man afterwards is not good contraception.
Why is it ultimately upto the woman? Surely sex is a concensual experience where both people share a meeting of the minds and agree to have sex? Both should think about contraception and think of the consequences of that contraception failing them and if they can't manage that or don't agree then they simply shouldn't have sex!

Equal decision, equal problem, equal blame. None of this ultimately it's either of the partners fault as an individual.
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