[derekgas]

Thank you all, I did of course explain that the memories and the love will always be there, and the kids go to a catholic school, so they have a reasonable understanding I think, they all said they would pray for him, even though it is not my belief, I am happy that they have a way to express themselves, it is thier own decision what to make of religion, and I will not influence them in any way, for the time being, the belief serves a useful purpose.