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hold on a minute, when i was 14/15 me and another accywebber used to 'hang out' with 'older guys' our parents didnt know a thing about it, yes all we where doing was hanging out, nothing more sinister, if the parents dont know about it then how can they do anything about it? i know for certain that my mum would have gone balistic if she found out (and she did eventually)

this has nothing whatsoever to do with 'bad parenting' kids can be secretive, i know i was at that age

and before anyone says anything, i was 16 before i lost my virginity