[Margaret Pilkington]

To illustrate this point........I worked with a very capable Doctor......capable, but miserable. His family members were all Doctors(one of them was a very eminent and fiery Consultant)....this young man had been coerced into a career in medicine because that was what those in his family did....Medicine!
All this young man wanted to be was........a postman!
He was on the brink of giving up his medical career when his family decided he should go on a break to France to 'think through' his decision.
He never came back. He was killed in a motobike accident, so he never got to be a postman after all.