I think if she could have seen what was going to happen she wouldn't have done it. Procedures like this take place every day without going wrong, she was just unlucky.
I don't blame her, just like I wouldn't blame someone who died in a plane crash for trying to get away on holiday........hundreds of planes take off and land every day without incident, occasionally one crashes but that's not what you expect when you book your flight.
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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs, cackling and telling me
'You'll be next.' They stopped when I started doing the same to them at funerals.
