[Margaret Pilkington]

well, Blazey...if you aren't as rowdy and immature as you make out...........why do you give that impression?
It isn't a trait that fosters admiration.
And yes it is perfectly reasonable to change your mind about something....after all females are notorious for doing just that.......but what makes you think that we all want to know about it.
You asked for advice......good advice was given and yet (pardon the pun) you still laboured the advice.