[Margaret Pilkington]

Life, you say that fear places you in a position of insecurity, but what are you doing with your links to sites with stuff on them that would scare the humblest person out of their wits?........Aah, I see, you are educating........and would tell us that it isn't the same thing......but information given in a format that is indigestible causes fear and anxiety........we don't all have the same mental capacities, but that doesn't make anyone 'numpty', a derogatory insult, if ever I heard one.......it may make them uneducated, and this can be remedied, but in an appropriate way.
I think you need to look at how you determine what the forum members are like.......you need to judge them less.......either that or find a forum where your thinly veiled insults are acceptable.