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Originally Posted by flashy
i do regret my mum dying when i was 15 and wish i hadn't been such a little git for her whilst she was alive, everyone looks at things with hindsight and wish they could change the past somewhat, this is my deepest and only regret
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I am sorry if this has caused you any upset Shaz & Rindy (it was not intended), but I can understand your feelings. I myself was just 20 when my Mum died, I was in Ireland at the time (1985), but I was flown home to be with the family.
She died in early February but I was lucky enough to see her in early January, so my memories of her live & vibrant were fresh in my mind when the news came.
Time has healed the resentment & bitterness, but regrets in this instance can't be altered, I regret her not seeing me married off despite her telling me no one would be daft enough to have me
I regret her not seeing her Daughter in law (the one daft enough to have me)
a Grandson & Great grand Daughter, all things that have transpired since her departing. But as you say we've lived & life on occasion does bring some regret.