Nowt wrong at all wi a big fancy wedding, if thats what floats yer boat n providing yeh can afford it, i certainly couldn't, too many go in debt fer all the trappings n that to me is stupidity, mine was a church, but a cheapo, we thought there was far more important stuff to spend the dough on, like furniture mostly second hand, n deposit fer n house, it worked fer us, nearly 30 yrs, until she croaked,happiness don't come in material things,never will. imho.
