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Originally Posted by KIPAX
I have not only stopped posting in this thread (yes yes i know) but on accy web as a whole.. I think some of the things that have been said to me, about me and and the if, buts, and maybes asked about the way I treat my children are nothing short of disgusting. at least one deleted by gobsmacked on request that was attacking my wife really upset me but some of the suggestions by busman i find absoloutly insulting. its the ifs and the open to question wether I love my children I find the hardest to deal with.
My crime?
I dont hit my children.
Your response to me as a whole for that crime is .... well.
Gooodbye
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-That's a pity Kipax.-
However, I don't feel that he is suitable for this forum, as he is far to sensitive to anthing that can be construed as criticism. Unfortunately to disagree with him, is taken immediately as personal criticism...but it isn't, nor (as far as I can discern) is it intended by anyone taking part in the forum discussions.
I, nor anybody else has made a personal assault on Kipax's integrity for his point of view against smacking/hitting children. Also, I for one valued his input, as it made the rest of us think about that particular point of view, and I think he was right to do so, and I don't for one minute even remotely think that he doesn't love his children less than anybody else, in fact such a thought has never entered my head.
I wish he would re-consider leaving the site as he has a lot to offer.