[Gobsmacked]

Perhaps her children haven't gone off the rails because they grew up with discipline?

It must have been a traumatic time for them and for you Willow. I'm not sure which would be worse, divorce where a child has the opportunity of seeing the estranged parent under different circumstances, or death where they will not see them but live with the knowledge that the love between their parents still remained to the end.

Good luck to you for the future Willow and children, and your future other half.