Men !!!
Ok, maybe I was so giddy with excitement (have to get it wherever I can these days), perhaps didn't explain it proper.
If you go into one of the forums .. like General Chat, for instance, showing all the threads ... then there is a column headed 'Replies' to a thread ... click on that number and a little box will appear giving you details of who has replied and how many times.
C'mon, if Jaysay got it, well..........
