[jedimaster]

Originally Posted by garinda

That's a toughy, my little mucker.

Somethings, not all, we just have to grin, bear, and just accept 'em.

I was lucky. I followed, found, and enjoyed living my dream for a good twenty years, before having to accept something that changed my life.

Accept what you HAVE to, and if that affects what you THOUGHT your dreams were...get some new, different, better dreams.

I hate, pious platitudes, but these words always make sense to me.

"Lord grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."
-- Saint Francis of Assisi

I've no answers, but if you ever need a brew and a natter, message me.

there is a lot of sense there gary and believe me I do have new dreams and directions i amtrying to to go in, I'm just finding it damned hard to make them a reality. but nil desperandum as they say. Just got to get used to having good days and bad days as i'm sure you have had to.