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Originally Posted by Margaret Pilkington
That is the truest thing anyone ever said. They are the ones who cope with the fallout and are left thinking that maybe, just maybe if they had been a bit more kind, a bit more perceptive/intuitive....then their loved one would still be with them.
In the dark hours of the night they examine everything they did in the run up to this terrible event....they try to see if there was anything they said that would have given any clue to the real feelings of the one who took their own life.
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What a selfish statement.
Of course those left behind will have recriminations & regrets that a loved one has been lost.
But, the person that commited suicide has lost everything!
Who knows why they did it?
Who knows their state of mind when they did it?
Who can judge them for the fact that they did it?
Lots of self righteous folk on this thread judging the one that felt compelled to end it all.
The method they used may not have been ideal for the poor sods that witnessed it but hell, give the poor begger a break and now they have done it leave them in peace, (it might just have been your judgemental nagging that drove them to it).