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ok this seems to be a common thing for me... a guy shows interest, he askes me on a date, he cancells before said date and i never hear from him again!! can anybody help.... is it me or them???

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http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/11/11_15_1.gif Ok come to the Accyweb meeting on the 27th at 7 - 30pm in the STAG inn at Church and we can talk about it and (thats a date)

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:mad: OH NO babe he didn't!! .......... is this the one we were waiting for a text from?

I have a solution for you ;) ... YOU cancel the date before they do ......... hope this helps :D

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lol...yes he did... sent me a lovely text saying he was trying to play it cool but couldnt wait any longer and really really wanted to take me out. he then sent me a text the next day saying something had come up and he wouldnt be able to make it...this was friday and i havent heard a peep since!!

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lol..ill try my best. my best friend and my ex are trying to drag me out to celebrate my birthday so i may only be able to stay a while if i can manage to talk them into going.

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I think this has happened to most of us at some point Gem. At least he cancelled and didn't stand you up. I remember something similar happening to me once. I pretended that he'd had a serious accident.......Hehehe, made me feel better...;)

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as long as its them and not me then!!! lol

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Maybe he was embarrssed and might re-arrnge the date when it's gone down ;)



His loss chick!! There's plenty more fish in the sea ..... omg was that my mum typing :D

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Oh dear gem..............................text himand tell him that you had a lovely time on the date, as he didn't turn up, you actually went on your own and met a lovely bloke there, really good looking, charming, loaded and he is the most lovely man you have ever met. Then thank him and say " if it wasn't for you cancelling our date, I wouldn't have met this lovely guy, so thankyou so much".

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lol...ah mums...arent they great, full of brilliant advise like that!!! and seeing as though its national fishing week....best get my fly fishing book out...hmm j.r. hartley here i come!!! lol

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PLEASE bring your friends along they will be made welcome

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ill try my best...it is my birthday after all..they should bow to my demands!!! ahem i mean if i ask nicely... lol
:)

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good it will be nice to meet you and your friends even if its just for 1 drink
as its your birhday (as long as it comes up on accyweb birthdays) i will buy you a drink promise

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There maybe a perfectly good reason Shiny Gem, he might be thinking treat em mean keep em keen! Alternatively he may have been a bit drunk and therefore had the courage to ask, then lost his bottle.

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Or......he may be just a git....:D I would go with Slinky's suggestion and text him anyway, say that you took yourself out, had a brilliant time and met the man of your dreams.

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hmm i think ill leave it a bit see if he gets in touch..if not as they say...itll be his loss!!!

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Why would you want a man......they are a right pain in the Arsenal.

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ive got a lightbulb needs changing!!!
:D

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and you think a man will do it for you......dream on girl......dream on.

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but i can flutter my eyelashes and i can cry really well!!! surely thats enough, isnt it??? :p

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Not all of us. I'm a good guy. Ask my Mrs.
I cook(better than her) I clean, I make the bed, I wash up.
Better stop now all the rest might get jealous. :rolleyes:

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I'd rather have a meat pudding with plenty of gravy......at least the package has to tell you how much meat you are going to get.

Sorry, got my cynical head on.

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Your sort are as rare as hen's teeth.

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very true... single men are not as eager...or the ones that are have hidden themselves away!!!

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tell me about it shiny gem :rolleyes: flippin nightmare, pah! men!

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have you got one harwood??

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funnily enough...my dada taught me how to cook...and im pretty darn good at it too now!!!

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nope, it would take a pretty special man to sweep me of me feet. It just seems to much hassle :rolleyes: Been there, done that, got the T-shirt oh yeah and two fantastic sons! :)

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i know a guy who drives the dust cart...is that enough sweeping??

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Bin the light weight twit.

Date a gay man it's all the rage.

Flowers, compliments, witty girly chat, just make sure you have your rabbit handy for later.;)

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hey and they make pretty good navigators too without having a go at how you're driving... hey rindy!!!! ;)

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lol..and maybe wed even get a whole conversation...instead of the usual grunts!!! lol

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Lol, I didn't mean me!!!

I'm only bi, and only fit the criteria every other day!;)

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ooh you nearly got a slap till i rtealised you wherent talking about the one in the galley!!! lol

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so what are everyones thought on age gaps??? ive kinda got my eye on a 37 year old, and im 23...but hes a really nice guy!!!

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ha ha ha ha ha ha :D

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:D No problem with age gap ...... the older the better just make sure he has a good life insurance policy made out in your name if he can't handle the pace ;)

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lmao...ahhh full of good advise!! hmm i wonder hows sean connery..hes getting on a bit isnt he...and plenty of money..

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Hun, l'm afraid his young bit of stuff is probably older than your Mother, you could try his son Jason who is my age..................er, twenty eight?;)

He's a good dancer too, although we only did the twist and not the whole Patrick Swayzee number, sadly.:(

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you wouldnt like him if you met him,hes an horrible scruffy obnoxious man. ;)

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shiney come out of yourself and do what you want, no bloke or whatever, you will do what you do ..........simple..

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hey cashy ....i like sean connery......... but don't want him..... he he ........men are just as fickle as us gemm so go with the flow...........& never expect too much.

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She who expects nothing will never be disappointed, because that's all she'll get.....nothing!

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Me and Daddiboo have been together for nine and a half years now and never looked back. When we first got together i didnt like him didnt think he was my kind and after a few friends forcing us together we are still here now with two lovely childeren.

My point being that maybe the best person for you is not always the one you would choose dont look so hard its usually when you are looking that you cant see when you stop looking they will be flooding to you.

Good luck chick.

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OMG lol! Me, slink and a friend were only having this same conversation last night about our huns !!

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Yes we were.................how weird:D ................it's true though, the ones you dont think you will end up with, you do.
The ones that you worship and want to be with, end up treating you like c**p..........men eh!!!! and who said woman were hard to suss out eh??:o

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It ain't half fun seeing them again later in time though and thinking 'OMG WHAT DID I SEE IN HIM'!

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Yes tinks, I have had a few of those scary moment in the past. It is even better when you see them with a "dodgy looking girlfriend"!!!!! this happened to me a few weeks ago and it was pretty funny, the look on his face was PRICLESS:eek:

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You get the same look on their face when you wiggle your little finger at them to show them what you really thought ;) !

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Yes I know what you mean tinks........i can no- longer look at a thimble after some of my passed boyfriends.....................:D

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:rofl38: would it be cruel if we named names .......... or our duty so that the singletons know who to avoid? :D

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I think it would be nice to let all the singletons know who the men were...........but at least this fellow knows who we are talking about......................

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i think you should spill the beans...just in case!!! lol
;)

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cmon spill...its only fair!!! lol

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lmfao!! Like Tinks & Slinks Film Critic thread .......... give them marks out of 10? :D

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ooh yeah sounds like a great thread!!! and the men can join in too...just in case they feel left out!!! lol

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Sounds like a good thing, any singletons can check up on accyweb who's good and who's not before a night on the pull, bit like word of mouth on a decent plumber or builder really :D

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lol...great idea...we could also do the accyweb version of fhm's highstreet honeys!!! take your digital cams out on a night out and start posting pics of these hunks!!

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:D OH HELL YEAH! I'm up for that one! :camera8:

I wonder if I have any on my PC to start us off ........... OK maybe not ;)

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go on start the thread....i dare you lol we need a good laugh!!!

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lmfao! Wait till I've booked my ticket out the country first :D

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lol... nah youll enjoy it tinks honest!!

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Hehehehe I can think of one that had a very small weeny..................ahem!!!!! poor boy, wonder how he's getting on lmfao

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awww Slinky don't talk about Ginger like that ..... it's not that small really is it? :D

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mmmmmmm wasn't talking about ginger, BUT now you come to mention it!!!!! Lmfao.........................he he he

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So Ginger is the 1st pic in our High Street Hunks thread? :D

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You would have to split the list into several post's so as not to jam up the AccyWeb server :p

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:eek: Excuse me! I have taken a vow of celibacy and have the most unblemished record in the convent .......... any list of hunks was given to me by a good source ;)