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accymel 04-12-2006 15:22

Oh bar humbug
 
Not too far from the dreaded C word & still havent got pressies yet - me last minute, dreading the cost all for just one day & now my daughter is taunting me with xmas songs!!!! Great for the little ones but oh i feel so humbug:(

What makes u humbug??

Tinkerbelle 04-12-2006 15:25

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Originally Posted by accymel (Post 345013)
i feel so humbug:(

I'm sorry, my christmas spirit rub off on you? I bet you wish you'd never popped round to old grumpy guts now lol!

silvermain 04-12-2006 15:29

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Why do people act nice to people they dont like or dont even know because of the time of year? I went to a christmas dinner last year and the waiter stood by the table and directly at the side of me after giving out the menu's. After about 5 minutes ended up tell him to fook off and leave us the look at the menu's but got shi7 of people for doing it and what did they say? Oh dont be so mean its christmas. I dont give a shi7 if its his birthday.

accymel 04-12-2006 15:30

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle (Post 345016)
I'm sorry, my christmas spirit rub off on you? I bet you wish you'd never popped round to old grumpy guts now lol!


Naaaa xmas spirit wasn't in me anyway it comes too darn quick doesn't seem long ago since it was last xmas - i think age has creeped in LOL:D

Tinkerbelle 04-12-2006 15:40

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Well, like we were saying this afternoon, for me it's that the kids have got older. The magic has gone from when they were tiny tots, with the wide eyes on Christmas morning at the beautiful coloured paper that hid their new little toys, that they would spend hours playing with.

Now, it's just wants! I want a Playstation, I want a mobile phone, I want money instead of presents.

Me, I want to have a couple of tots to hang round with at Christmas :)

yerself 04-12-2006 16:03

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle
Me, I want to have a couple of tots to hang round with at Christmas

I'm sure Mthead could oblige :) :)

WillowTheWhisp 04-12-2006 16:05

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Originally Posted by silvermain (Post 345020)
Why do people act nice to people they dont like or dont even know because of the time of year? I went to a christmas dinner last year and the waiter stood by the table and directly at the side of me after giving out the menu's. After about 5 minutes ended up tell him to fook off and leave us the look at the menu's but got shi7 of people for doing it and what did they say? Oh dont be so mean its christmas. I dont give a shi7 if its his birthday.


I don't like waiters hovering over me either but whatever time of year it was I would have simply asked politely if we could have a little time to study the menu. Just because someone irritates you there is absolutely no need to be offensive. He had probably been instructed by his boss to be attentive and not leave people waiting too long to order their food.

Once we were having a family meal in a pub, there were about 12 of us there around a large table. As usual someone came during the meal to ask if everything was OK. The first time wasn't so bad, but then another waiter came and asked the same thing - then another one, and another one. It got beyond a joke. They were probably all doing what they'd been told to do. We made a joke of it and decided to take it in turns to reply but Busman did say that 'everything' would be a lot better if we could just be left in peace to enjoy our meal.:D

Nobody swore at anybody - it wasn't necessary.

Tinkerbelle 04-12-2006 16:10

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Originally Posted by yerself (Post 345038)
I'm sure Mthead could oblige :) :)


LOL! I know he would but it's not an option ;)

accymel 04-12-2006 16:16

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle (Post 345030)
Well, like we were saying this afternoon, for me it's that the kids have got older. The magic has gone from when they were tiny tots, with the wide eyes on Christmas morning at the beautiful coloured paper that hid their new little toys, that they would spend hours playing with.

Now, it's just wants! I want a Playstation, I want a mobile phone, I want money instead of presents.

Me, I want to have a couple of tots to hang round with at Christmas :)

Yeh they are much easier to please than older ones - now with everything so expensive these days :(

Tinkerbelle 04-12-2006 16:28

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Originally Posted by accymel (Post 345049)
Yeh they are much easier to please than older ones

I know and that's the problem with yerselfs idea ...... a kiddy is for life not just for Christmas. :rolleyes: Wonder if there's any websites that rent tots out :D

accymel 04-12-2006 16:32

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle (Post 345051)
I know and that's the problem with yerselfs idea ...... a kiddy is for life not just for Christmas. :rolleyes: Wonder if there's any websites that rent tots out :D

No better still - no kids xmas in the pub:D :D :D

Tinkerbelle 04-12-2006 16:38

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Now there's a plan ........ ;) :D

carl hurles 04-12-2006 16:47

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i can arrainge for u to have my lot to hang round at urs xmas morning but ull have a lot of tiding to do lol

Tinkerbelle 04-12-2006 16:56

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LOL! I'm used to it ;) My place is always in chaos :eek:

Doug 04-12-2006 17:03

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Originally Posted by accymel (Post 345013)
Not too far from the dreaded C word & still havent got pressies yet - me last minute, dreading the cost all for just one day & now my daughter is taunting me with xmas songs!!!! Great for the little ones but oh i feel so humbug:(

What makes u humbug??

You misrable ***, you should be singing alone with her, bless her little socks..........:)





wait till no one's looking and give her a good slap........:D

silvermain 04-12-2006 18:56

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Originally Posted by WillowTheWhisp (Post 345039)
I don't like waiters hovering over me either but whatever time of year it was I would have simply asked politely if we could have a little time to study the menu. Just because someone irritates you there is absolutely no need to be offensive. He had probably been instructed by his boss to be attentive and not leave people waiting too long to order their food.

Once we were having a family meal in a pub, there were about 12 of us there around a large table. As usual someone came during the meal to ask if everything was OK. The first time wasn't so bad, but then another waiter came and asked the same thing - then another one, and another one. It got beyond a joke. They were probably all doing what they'd been told to do. We made a joke of it and decided to take it in turns to reply but Busman did say that 'everything' would be a lot better if we could just be left in peace to enjoy our meal.:D

Nobody swore at anybody - it wasn't necessary.

You feel rushed and if that happens your customers are not relaxed so will not remember the visit for the reasons you want. So are less likely to come back. Id love to run a pub/resturant of my own but due to financal funds not being there i cant. And when the other people watch you eat that gets me too. Ive been tempted to go over and sit next to them and ask if they would like to try my food on more than one occassion

maccy 04-12-2006 19:25

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Originally Posted by accymel (Post 345021)
Naaaa xmas spirit wasn't in me anyway it comes too darn quick doesn't seem long ago since it was last xmas - i think age has creeped in LOL:D

thats cause your getting old lol ill send our jake round he'll give ya the xmas spirit:Banane06:
its the free things abt xmas that are the best

CASPER 04-12-2006 21:17

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Don't be so miserable, It's CHRISTMAS.... I've just put my tree up!!!!!!

accymel 04-12-2006 21:23

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Originally Posted by maccy (Post 345173)
thats cause your getting old lol ill send our jake round he'll give ya the xmas spirit:Banane06:
its the free things abt xmas that are the best

LOL yeh he would just do that lol na pefer the pub idea so i can least drink some xmas spirits instead:Banane20:

grannyclaret 04-12-2006 21:27

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They sell long tins of humbugs in m&s with the word HUMBUG written right across it .I bought one plus a xmas black hat with "bar humbug" on it,,, but nobody was impressed and i have been banned from wearing it...STILL I DONT REALY THINK ITS HUMBUG ....

Billcat 04-12-2006 21:59

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Don't be so miserable, It's CHRISTMAS.... I've just put my tree up!!!!!!

Good to hear that something is up!

To all the folks who are not happy with Christmas, I say a loud "Scrooge You!" Sounds nasty but meaning, of course, that I hope these folks end up as happy and merry as old Ebenezer!Attachment 7488

accymel 04-12-2006 22:03

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Its not being happy with christmas its being caught up with all the hype & stress of it all especially leading up, gee xmas day is a light releif once the dinner & washing up is done :D

cherokee 04-12-2006 22:23

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Oh our christmases arnet the same now all the kids have grown up but i still try and make an effort for them even though theyre all teenagers plus ......Iloved it when they were all little xmas morning was the best time ever watching there little faces light up when opening pressies ..]

Now its just "ta mum " so i try and put my effort more into xmas dinner now although now my eldest has to share one year with me and other with his GFs fam unless hes away with work which im sure in due coarse they will all be the same , im dreading it lol!!!

WillowTheWhisp 04-12-2006 22:36

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Some things aren't worth getting stressy about. Either you can change something or you can't. If you can, then do. If you can't then no amount of stressy is going to make it any better.

I know what you mean silvermain about feeling rushed in a restaurant but it's as easy to ask them politely to give you a little more time as it is to tell them to go forth and multiply. The former usually ends up with everybody happy, the latter with people feeling aggressive and unhappy. I'd rather have the former.

The girls and I have put some decorations up tonight. The cats have studied carefully which ones they plan to pull down before morning. We'll be dong more as the week goes on.

cashman 04-12-2006 22:47

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dont really get stressed about the run up or xmas, dont go a bundle on it either,but dont dislike it. the hype and crap 3/4 months before by advertisers etc, i got a mute button. tree went up sat night, mind the kids are long gone so thats a blessing.:D

Tinkerbelle 04-12-2006 23:00

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Originally Posted by cherokee (Post 345237)
Oh our christmases arnet the same now all the kids have grown up but i still try and make an effort for them even though theyre all teenagers plus ......Iloved it when they were all little xmas morning was the best time ever watching there little faces light up when opening pressies ..

That's all it was, we were having a grumble about how the kids are growing up more than anything. Mine and Mels youngest are 9 year old this time, so for us it's just lost that magic, as you say of their little faces at all the pressies. As they get older the prices get higher but the box's get smaller. They more or less choose want they want, so only the odd surprise.

So really it's not a moan about Christmas season, it's my kids getting older. I read a really inspiring thread on burnley web earlier which certainly main me think :)

mrskitty 04-12-2006 23:24

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christmas,christmas,christmas!!!

I cant wait :banslide: :banslide: :banslide:

ANNE 04-12-2006 23:27

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I hate the run up to christmas. I have always loved Christmas eve better than Christmas day.
Now the children are all grown Christmas Eve is our Christmas Day. MUMMIBOO still has that big grin and the wide eyes. it dosnt seem like 12 months since last christmas.
it comes far to early.
It's hard work when you have loads of Grandchildren and they prefare loads of bits rather than a couple of decent presants.

cashman 04-12-2006 23:34

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must confess did used to love it when the kids were kids,had some great crack once did a tape reckoning i was father christmas, me son thought he had a lancashire accent for a few years.;)

accymel 05-12-2006 14:38

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Well started on the christmas pressie shop <groan> i can say ive started not got much but its a start & a card holder.....finally some pins to put rest of stuff up, bumped into miss kitty whilst down town too :D

Tealeaf 05-12-2006 14:52

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If any of you lot with kids are concerned about the rising cost of Christmas, here is what you do:

1) Get yourself a DVD showing lots of piccys of poor, starving African babies. You know - the usual old rubbish we see again and again on TV.

2) Sit down with the kids and show it to 'em on Christmas Eve. Make 'em feel guilty about all the pressy's they're going to get the following morning.

3) When the snot starts to dribble from their noses, ask 'em if rather than having the pressys, you should send the dosh to Africa instead.

4) The little bu**ars can only say yeah, at which point you've saved yourself piles of dosh. However, make sure you let 'em have a bag of nuts and an orange as consiliation.

Christmas is easy when you know how.

lancsdave 05-12-2006 17:25

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What date is Christmas this year ?:rolleyes:

accymel 05-12-2006 17:30

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Originally Posted by lancsdave (Post 345583)
What date is Christmas this year ?:rolleyes:

in 20 days & counting down :(

mrskitty 05-12-2006 20:27

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omg cheer up guys-its once a year and goes and quick as it comes!(no comments on that one please),you know you will have a good time really-even if its just at the accyweb meet:banhat: :banhat: :banhat:

SPUGGIE J 05-12-2006 20:39

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I will be happy come January, :D Crimbo is just too commercial and open for PC attacks for my liking. :)

CASPER 05-12-2006 20:40

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I''''m dreeeaming of a Whiiite Chrissssstmmass

CASPER 05-12-2006 20:41

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Originally Posted by SPUGGIE J (Post 345672)
and open for PC attacks for my liking. :)

I hope nobody attacks my PC!!!!!!

shillelagh 05-12-2006 22:01

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I just dont feel like Christmas this year. Cant get in the swing of things - i've still to write the christmas cards, put the tree up, start the christmas shopping.

harwood red 05-12-2006 22:06

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Originally Posted by shillelagh (Post 345713)
I just dont feel like Christmas this year. Cant get in the swing of things - i've still to write the christmas cards, put the tree up, start the christmas shopping.

Not far behind you jen, although did manage to get a few pressies on sunday in preston, otherwise it's finding the flippin time!!!!!!!!!:(

cashman 05-12-2006 22:46

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Originally Posted by lancsdave (Post 345583)
What date is Christmas this year ?:rolleyes:

DECEMBER 25TH.:D

Ianto.W. 05-12-2006 23:02

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, Tealeaf, Christmas is easy when you know how.
I cannot let your reply go unanswered, I do not think you are an indecent person or an uncharitable soul, one question I would ask of you, if you were told it was your last Christmas on this earth how would you celebrate it ,if at all?

jambutty 06-12-2006 09:16

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Instead of being nice to friends and neighbours at Xmas why don’t people do the same the whole year round?

For me and by choice, Xmas is just another couple of days the same as all the rest. The only difference is that there might be some decent programmes on TV.

With 4 children, 11 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren I cannot afford to give them all a meaningful Xmas present so they all get a card with a fiver for those under 16. They get a tenner on their birthday. They all know not to buy me a pressie, as a card will do for me. Those who can will drop in for ten minutes to wish me the season’s greetings. If anyone is so conscience stricken that they insist on buying me something for Xmas they know that either a packet of fags or a bar of chocolate will be appreciated rather than something that I don’t need or want.

So Xmas is bah humbug for me but if the world wants to celebrate then that is fine by me. Just don’t ask me to get involved. I’m content in my world.

Happy Xmas Everyone!

silvermain 06-12-2006 12:55

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Just seen misskitty saying cant wait cant wait etc etc etc...

But what for? What is there to look forward to? yes you get presents and thats it. Noone cars about christmas spirit and all that craq

silvermain 06-12-2006 12:56

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Originally Posted by jambutty (Post 345822)
So Xmas is bah humbug for me but if the world wants to celebrate then that is fine by me. Just don’t ask me to get involved. I’m content in my world.

Extremely well put. Thats exactly how i feel about it and alot of other things


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