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SPUGGIE J 18-08-2007 17:40
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Why does a women who cant wait and wanted a baby dispite the pain it causes then blames her partner for what she is going through??? Sow the wind reap the wirlwind. :p

BERNADETTE 18-08-2007 18:07
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Originally Posted by SPUGGIE J (Post 462026)
Why does a women who cant wait and wanted a baby dispite the pain it causes then blames her partner for what she is going through??? Sow the wind reap the wirlwind. :p
Only a man could have come out with a statement like that!!!! you lot get the three minutes pleasure and we get the hard work!!!!:p

lettie 18-08-2007 18:17
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Only a man could have come out with a statement like that!!!! you lot get the three minutes pleasure and we get the hard work!!!!:p
3 minutes!!!!! Is that doing it twice???:D

BERNADETTE 18-08-2007 18:27
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3 minutes!!!!! Is that doing it twice???:D
Possibly, depends on the man!!!:Banane34:

slinky 18-08-2007 18:31
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Possibly, depends on the man!!!:Banane34:
LOL yeah, for some men that's doing it 3 times :D

BERNADETTE 18-08-2007 18:45
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LOL yeah, for some men that's doing it 3 times :D
They aren't half getting it in the neck tonight!!!:Banane29:

slinky 18-08-2007 19:03
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They aren't half getting it in the neck tonight!!!:Banane29:
The buggers deserve it :D

BERNADETTE 18-08-2007 19:07
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The buggers deserve it :D
To true, just wondered why none of them were trying to defend theirselves!!;)

slinky 18-08-2007 19:14
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To true, just wondered why none of them were trying to defend theirselves!!;)
because they know :D

Royboy39 19-08-2007 20:56
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To true, just wondered why none of them were trying to defend theirselves!!;)
Come on ladies........You know we worked our socks off trying to get you in this position...blood sweat and tears give us some credit :D:p

JulieG 19-08-2007 21:08
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Originally Posted by lettie (Post 461850)
Women who have sections are more likely to develop fatal embolisms, wound infections, have greater blood loss, more pain (for several months after the surgery in some cases), anaesthetic complications and be less able to care for their new baby. Insurance companies do not allow you to drive for at least 6 weeks after a section. At a lot of hospitals now, C Section for no other reason than maternal request is not an option as it carries a much higher mortality rate than a normal birth.
In other words, planned C Section is not the easy option....
Sorry didn't have a clue about the risks with a C section. I guess the midwives leave out the scary stuff at the anti-natal classes.

I didn't really want to go into too much depth to scare anyone about to go through a natural labour, but the doctors couldn't find a heartbeat and after a 32 hour labour, with my baby lying back to back the doctor had to cut me open down below anyway (sorry, can't remember the medical term). The cord was wrapped round his neck and as I was pushing he was being strangled.

Unfortunately, in my case gall stones causing pancreatitis and liver problems mean't I had severe abdominal pain for 2 months after giving birth and then cut open anyway to have my gall bladder out. This caused muscular pain and so my baby was about 3 months old before I could carry him and it took until he was about 6 months old before I felt no pain carrying him.

I suppose everyone has different experiences. There are obviously risks with a C section, but I still think women who have experienced complications in a natural birth should be given the choice second time round.

JulieG 19-08-2007 21:10
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Originally Posted by lettie (Post 461850)
Women who have sections are more likely to develop fatal embolisms, wound infections, have greater blood loss, more pain (for several months after the surgery in some cases), anaesthetic complications and be less able to care for their new baby. Insurance companies do not allow you to drive for at least 6 weeks after a section. At a lot of hospitals now, C Section for no other reason than maternal request is not an option as it carries a much higher mortality rate than a normal birth.
In other words, planned C Section is not the easy option....
Sorry didn't have a clue about the risks with a C section. I guess the midwives leave out the scary stuff at the anti-natal classes.

I didn't really want to go into too much depth to scare anyone about to go through a natural labour, but the doctors couldn't find a heartbeat and after a 32 hour labour, with my baby lying back to back the doctor had to cut me open down below anyway (sorry, can't remember the medical term). The cord was wrapped round his neck and as I was pushing he was being strangled.

Unfortunately, in my case gall stones causing pancreatitis and liver problems mean't I had severe abdominal pain for 2 months after giving birth and then cut open anyway to have my gall bladder out. This caused muscular pain and so my baby was about 3 months old before I could carry him and it took until he was about 6 months old before I felt no pain carrying him.

I suppose everyone has different experiences. There are obviously risks with a C section, but I still think women who have experienced complications in a natural birth should be given the choice second time round.

Gayle 19-08-2007 21:13
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First time round was hell so the second time from day one I asked if I could have an elective section. All the way through they said 'no'. At the last appointment they said that the baby was too big (10lb 3oz when he came out) and was breech so I'd have to have a section. I had the good sense to look horrified but inside I was going, 'yeeeeeeesssssssss'.

Recovered far better and quicker from the section than the 'natural' one and didn't have any baby blues afterwards at all.

cashman 20-08-2007 00:09
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well after reading 5 pages of mainly women whinging, i can honestly say,my consultant told me over 2 yrs ago, that my nuralgia is far more painful than childbirth,an i dont whinge about it- cos i'm a man.:D

MargaretR 20-08-2007 07:03
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Originally Posted by cashman (Post 462492)
well after reading 5 pages of mainly women whinging, i can honestly say,my consultant told me over 2 yrs ago, that my nuralgia is far more painful than childbirth,an i dont whinge about it- cos i'm a man.:D
I can only conclude that your consultant is a man.
The nearest pain on the 'rhicter' scale was appendicitis which required rapid surgery -scale 8, childbirth was 10+


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