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I am sure that this is, to a great extent true.
Most parents want to provide something better for their own children than their parents provided for them......or at least on a par with.
Even though we were poor I enjoyed the Christmas experience......OK, it wasn't so commercial way back then....and I remember wanting to provide my own child with the Christmas experience........and what is wrong with that?
Margaret, you are entitled to your own opinion (as is everyone else who uses this forum), but it isn't one that I would subscribe to.
Let children enjoy their childhood......it doesn't have to be viewed from such an adult and serious perspective.

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Slow down girl, your making the mistake of getting personal, stick to your guns if you must but don't attempt to make yourself less than you already have!

I used bold and size seven font to emphasise the irony of the whole argument, so far you and a fantasy figure have shown disdain for everyone else, please feel free to have your ideas but don't spoil it for the rest of us, kids are kids and should be given the adventure of imagination.
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Thats disgusting, I would've been round at the school too.

I completely disagree with you Margaret, when I found out that Father Christmas didn't exist (thanks Lettie:D) it didn't even enter my head that I'd been lied to by my parents I was just pleased that I were still getting presents. I kind of knew anyway cause we used to find them every year:)

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What a load of utter rubbish, gandalfthewhite is a silly name I chose for this forum, that's all it is, an alias, father xmas totally different, there is no irony.

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I think I have always been 'civilised' in this thread and have presented the alternative argument in a reasonable way.

I haven't said 'I don't like you' because I don't know and I never tell lies :D

I think 'the jury is now out' - either side of this argument is not likely to change our individual entrenched opinions
Thanks for the mental excercise and the excuse for in depth Googling:)

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Father Christmas is something as a child ,I do not think that one of you argue as you will, did not look forward to when it was 'your time'. Please keep the illusion going, as the four seasons come and go so do 'our' religious festivals, an rightly so we should perpetuate them. I am now an 'old fogey, but I set targets in life, each one is my next goal in life. Our children should be encouraged to do the same, instead of wishing our lives away let them have something to look forward to. After all is said and done, they are growing up far to quickly these days.

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But you are an "old fashioned git". :D:D:D

It's a pity that being old fashioned is out of fashion.

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Where have I said you weren't civilised? Wrong, in fact completely wrong but NEVER uncivilised!

I haven't said "I don't like you because well, to be honest most of the time I do because you put forward many sensible thought's today though, you are wrong, (and it gives me no pleasure to tell you this),
(it's in red 'cos I want it to be not as some sort of insult).

let me know if you would like pointing to an on line Dictionary then you can look up irony?
:rofl38:

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Less - we will agree to differ (and thanks for the bits that were complimentary) :D

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Now come on Margaret, we can't agree to differ yet, we've only got one mod' watching over us, we need to carry on until there are at least three! :rolleyes:

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got to agree with you ianto life is too short for kids & "fairytails" & imagination are dissapearing oh so fast, last year someone (i think it was ksh) put a thread on about nasa, & the tracking of father christmas around the world .........i will say & admit i did & will do this year followed the trail of father christmas .......................i found it quite interesting, lighten up people its only christmas magic after all.

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IM with lettie ..WHAT NO SANTA ??? NOOOOOOOOOOOOWAYYYYYY!!!!!!
dont believe you . of course there is , ive seen him .. lol
some mothers dont deserve the name .....cruel ..

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We've always, in our family, played the Santa Claus thing down to an extent. Most of their presents were not given anonymously and the few that were got less and less as the child got older. The children enjoyed playing along with the Santa idea, humouring the parents a lot of the time, but it was never a very big deal once they got past babyhood. Children aren't as naive as parents sometimes like to think.

What I do think is wrong is to show a child something you've bought for him then say he can't have it yet. That's like putting a hot dinner under the nose of a hungry child then taking it away again, it's thoughtless and callous.

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Cheers, Harwood Red. I shalll use those.:)

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[quote=grego;481611]Thats disgusting, I would've been round at the school too.

Me too, Grego.:(

It's the parents' decision what/when to tell the children about Father Christmas, not the teachers'. She had no right to do that.