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I too am so very sorry Ian and Julie. Big hug from across the pond!

Brian

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Julie and Ian
I am sorry for your loss and i think all will respect your wishes . But please dont shy away from your friends .
I know there are a lot of numnuts on accyweb but the majority really share your feelings , please take advantage of the respect and feelings accyweb has to offer , we are all here for you.

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Julie and Ian
I am sorry for your loss and i think all will respect your wishes . But please dont shy away from your friends .
I know there are a lot of numnuts on accyweb but the majority really share your feelings , please take advantage of the respect and feelings accyweb has to offer , we are all here for you.

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So sorry to hear that Julie and Ian. I know what you're going through, been there myself and I can fully understand how you may not wish to talk about it at an AccyWeb meet when you are just there to socialise. You know that there are plenty of people here sending you virtual hugs anyway and can empathise with you. It's hard and I don't think you ever get over it even though you have other children. I always wonder about the ones we didn't have and often grieve for them as I would for the loss of any loved one. Sometimes people ask me why I waited so long to start a family. I didn't wait. It's just the way it was. Knowing that others have been through the same thing doesn't make it any easier but at least you know that we know what it's like and we feel for you at this time.

So, not mentioning it when I see either of you of course doesn't mean that I don't care - just respecting your wishes.
:flower:

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I'm sad too

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As Bree VanDeKamp once said, good friends show their concern. Great friends pretend nothing ever happened.

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Sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you. xxx

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I really feel for you all. Take care and remember that there usually is a reason.

Lots of love
June x

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I'm sorry to hear this Ian and Julie, my thoughts are with you. :)

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Thanks for all your kind thoughts and wishes.

I'm sure you will all understand that Julie and I are both very upset about this and its one of those things that everywhere we seem to look there are new babies. Our request was based purely that we don't want to be constantly be reminded of it and for those akward moments when people don't really know what to say to us. We will both of course remember in our own way.

thanks again for all the lovely thoughts and words