Re: so my mum died this afternoon...
 

try not to let it stress ya, so they may not talk to ya again- so what? if they are like that they aint worth it, arranging n leaving others to pay is not a nice thing to do, so DONT let em stress ya, slong as you n yer sisters are ok, stuff the rest if thats how they wanna play.;)

Re: so my mum died this afternoon...
 

You could always attend the funeral,
but observe from a distance, don't let
those other relatives see you, just your sister

Take a camera use it just to prove to the
dissenters that you were there.

you could regret in years to come that you were'nt
there.

Retlaw.

Re: so my mum died this afternoon...
 

When you go to a funeral you go to pay your respects to a loved one usually - sounds as though the umbilical cord snapped a while ago. Sadly, no one can make the decision to go or not to go for you. Good luck whatever your decision.

Re: so my mum died this afternoon...
 

Oh, I am just loving the postscript! So pleased that you will receive a share of your mother's estate. Accept it gladly and pay no heed to what the relatives may say. It's karma, my friend.

Re: so my mum died this afternoon...
 

Have no qualms about your inheritance........it is yours and the relatives who may shun you because of what you inherit, aren't fit to be called relatives.

Re: so my mum died this afternoon...
 

I feel glad that you decided to go, no-one can ever throw it back at you that way, the house thing is probably a long way from settled, the rellies will probably do anything to get thier hands on the house, or stop the sale, and the proceeds going where they should, I wish you well with this.